My specialty is in coaching men. The hardest part about coaching men is getting them to accept help. After all, we are the one everyone goes to right?
But even Kings and Presidents have advisors. Make good use of those advisors.
Did you know there are well over 100 verses in the Bible
regarding wise counsel?
Here are just a few.
If the bible has that much to say on this, don't you think we should pay attention?
The way of a fool is right in his own eyes, but a wise man listens to advice.
Where there is no guidance, a people falls, but in an abundance of counselors there is safety.
Without counsel plans fail, but with many advisers they succeed.
For by wise guidance you can wage your war, and in abundance of counselors there is victory.
It's not easy being a parent in today's society. Especially if you want to raise respectful, hard working responsible children. Dad, I have an incredible program you can do with your kids that will really help you become a super dad in their eyes. My son is now 24 and doing great. He is a full-time assistant manager, takes accelerated night classes online to complete his college degree and is now engaged to be married next year. I'm so proud of him I could just pop a button.
But it wasn't always like this. We had some rough years. There was even a time I thought he was going to leave us and maybe I'd never see him again. It's times like that where you really learn what works and what doesn't! You may have noticed the green card I scanned in. My son gave this to me for my birthday this year, 2022. Needless to say, I cried when I read it. He also gave me a very expensive apple watch and paid for dinner for the whole family. Talk about wow! I was beside myself. But this didn't just happen over night.
Relationship is a two way street, but if you want to become the leader in the relationship you can grow things in the right direction and most of the time, if you stick with it, your relationship will move into an amazing support system for both of you.
If your relationship is worth working on, then take the first step and send me a note.
If you're a new dad, don't wait to begin your relationship with your son or daughter. Start connecting on any level you can.
Just being there is 90%. If you need help, ideas and a little accountability then contact me. Send me a note today.
These years can be some of the hardest to deal with and it's so easy as Dad to just back away and leave it all to your wife.
This is a Big Mistake!
If you and your wife are struggling with your teenage daughter don't wait a minute longer. Dad, its up to you to lead the way.
Send me a note today. First session is free.
Where every you are in the timeline of fatherhood if you start now you can make changes that will last a lifetime. Don't give up, rather pick up the baton and make the first move today.
Relationships are like trees, they take time & love.
So if someone asked your wife from 1-10, and 10 being the best, "How would you rate your marriage?" What do you think she would say. If you are reading this now something tells me you know the answer already, but if you don't you should ask her.
Marriage is like a tree. The more you care for it the better it looks.
After 14 years of marriage my wife and I took a year and a half to work with counselors to repair damage from lack of caring for our tree. We had to cut away the dead, diseased and dyeing branches. We had to break out the fertilizer and dump loads of the stuff all around and then water and water and then water some more. We talked to the tree and loved on the tree until it came back to life and started to look healthy again. It doesn't happen over night, but with time and a lot of love you can grow a beautiful marriage tree that is lush and green, providing shade and oxygen in the form of hope and security to others close by, aka your kids and other couples.
If you want this for your marriage then send me a note and lets get started.
Send him a link to this page and support him with patience and prayer.
Just remember Rome wasn't built in a day so give us some time and be sure to compliment him on the small improvements. This is the best encouragement for change you can do.